International Women’s Day and what it means for you (guys)

Today is International Women’s Day, and while we all share posts and like statuses, I feel like I should take part in talking to some fellow guys who may not understand why today is so important.

  1. First off, I’m a cis white man, if you are reading this for educational purposes I would highly encourage you to go read articles and visit the social media of female leaders, celebrities, and activists to get a true idea of what today is all about. But I would especially encourage you to reach out to women you know on social media as well. (I’ll explain why below.) If you can’t think of anyone, here are some amazing women who you should talk to or hear stories from; Natalie Cuevas, Christine Horvath, Amber Falter, Bianca Moore, Allexus Scott, Erin Bryden, Jessica Hindman, Hallie Gebel, Athena HoweAngie Healey, Becky Brown, Walta Yoseph, Brooke Cartus, Sommer Sterud, Betty LerouxDaidria Eckles, Stephenie Ewen, Tona Pearson, Dede Parker, Kaitlin McFee and Candice Connor, Kayla Merchant, Honey Merlot, Nickey Winkleman, Sarah J. Storer, Eva Starnes, A.J. Vanderelli, Emily Slye, Adra Barrel, and Autumn Ollom. Ask any of them what this day means to them and they’ll help broaden your perspective on what it is.
  2. Today is a day to remind ourselves, guys, that the women in our lives may seem okay on a day-to-day basis but are actually fighting an uphill battle. You may think I’m talking about the wage gap, but I’m also talking about the simple, easy things that we do every day can often be challenging for women. My friends get cat-called on the street, cornered by creepy guys, ignored or dismissed behind their backs, but often it’s to their faces. So remember that lifting women up today is good, but unfair treatment is a struggle for all women year-round, and that’s why you need to start today and every day after.
  3. If your thoughts are, Is it really that bad?  or I know my friends are okay. Stop. Stop. Stop. You can’t make either assumption because you don’t know what it’s like. And discounting the tales and stories of women who have been mistreated and thinking, Well that doesn’t happen everywhere. Isn’t the right way to respond because it shouldn’t happen at all. Dismissing these very real issues and stories is the same as dismissing all the women in your life. It may not be easy to accept, but our gender is typically complacent and too passive to really see this clearly on our own. Don’t think that not thinking about this is any solution. Once you accept that there’s a problem then you can make steps to fix it.
  4. If you want to help, if you want to see change, start small. Educate yourself by not only reading but by talking, it’s the easiest way to start understanding a women’s perspective in the world. And they’re are many different perspectives so talk to as many women as you can, not just your girlfriend, sister, or mom. As you learn more then start speaking up, but speak up with them, not for them. Remember that this is their struggle and the greatest support you can give isn’t speaking, it’s listening. If you’re worried or anxious still about how little voice you have on this issue, then you’re starting to understand a little of what it feels like for women every day.
  5. Talking and listening to more women will get you to appreciate them in your life more. I have many female friends, and therefore I get asked if I sleep with all of them. No. It’s possible to be just friends with women guys, and if you’re thinking, She’s too hot not to sleep with. Stop. Stop. Stop. Unless you’re 16 or under, you should be mature enough to appreciate women beyond their looks. If you think that’s BS then you have no idea just how amazing the women in your life are, and I feel bad for you.
  6. Immersing yourself in the world of women includes making donations, going to protests, and attending art shows. But it also involves a message, a text, a call. If you’re thinking about a friend in your life, tell her you love her and why. She wants to hear it, not because she’s a woman, but because she’s a person. I’m sure someone has made the effort to you to let you know why you’re important, do the same for her, for others.

Most of these were just tips to get you to relax and start opening up to a group of kickass ladies who just want our support. If you feel embarrassed or defensive, know that I’m not attacking you or trying to start a fight, I’m just trying to tell you the truth that so many incredible women have told me. Let’s give support to them not just today, but every day, and remember that things can change if we actually make the effort to start that change in our own lives. I hope my fellow man reading this will reconsider what he’s doing and make that change, and I hope to any woman reading this will feel that change in her life soon enough. And if you are 100% against everything I just said, then get the fuck out of my website. Love, Brian.

 

Political Corretcness FiliBUSTED! Episode 6

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Comedians try to get serious about what Political Correctness is. Talking about where the line for Political Correctness stands in politics, professional, and personal life. And tell stories about how Political Correctness has affected their standup careers. Hosted by Griffin Browning and Pat Deering, this episode of FiliBUSTED! features: Becky Brown, Angie Healey, and Zach Parsons.

Also available on YouTube and Stitcher.

Filming, audio production, and editing by Brian Doney.

A Comedy Floorboard Production.

Thanks for listening!

Episode 10 – Dasan Valentine & Mike Arndt

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Although Columbus has a relatively small pop scene but that doesn’t mean it isn’t bursting with talent. Dasan Valentine is a fresh face in the pop/soul genre with a powerhouse voice. With the help of his partner and song writer Mike Arndt, the two are on the way to becoming the biggest stars out of Columbus and this podcast. Recently signed onto Activate Entertainment, Dasan’s newest album titled Vigilante will be coming out soon on iTunes, Amazon, and Best Buy.

Dasan Valentine will be headlining Bernie’s Heart Riot’s Winterfest on December 13th at 7pm!

Look out for Dasan Valentine’s newest album Vigilante coming out shortly after New Years!

Like the Official Dasan Valentine Facebook Page!

Special SHOUTOUT to Soundtrack ’96 for providing music for the show!

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Stay tuned for the next show on December 16th, thanks for listening!

Episode 9 – Tiffany “TiffaZilla” Harrell

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Tiffany Harrell is the creative mind behind TiffaZilla Designs. She specializes in using color pencil, pastel, airbrush, and charcoal. Her theme is to use vibrant colors to help reveal the light within darkness. She discusses on crossing art mediums, paying attention to yourself to find an artistic voice, and using honesty to create good art.

Check out TiffaZilla Designs’ Facebook Page here!

Check out Tiffany’s ArtPal account here!

Special SHOUTOUT to Soundtrack ’96 for providing music for the show!

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Stay tuned for the next show on December 2nd, thanks for listening!

23 Cents

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Today may be the greatest episode of 5 Minutes or Less of all time. And it’s with comedian Larry Wilson aka L Dub Nation.

Brian will be featuring for Comedy at Ace of Cups August 14th at 6pm for happy hour! And he’ll be hosting BOTU: Art, Mind, & Soul on August 21st at 8pm

Check out the newest episode of “What’s The Deal With Creativity?” Before the next episode release on August 19th

Today’s song was recommended by L Dub Nation himself. “3005” by Childish Gambino.

Thanks for listening!

Episode 1 – Melroy

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First episode of Brian’s new monthly podcast features CCAD graduate and freelance artist Melroy who talks about her struggles through freelance and her success as a costume designer by winning second place at Starbase Indy costume competition. We also talk about all the different types of art she does such as paper sculptures and costume design. Melroy will be in an art show at Shadowbox called Magical Minds on Sun. August 9th and her work can be viewed at 3rd Dimensions page.

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Stay tuned for next month’s show, thanks for listening!

Allegedly Mexican

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Brian learns about R.J. Creamer’s plans to become famous while they wait for a Donato’s pizza.

On June 20th at 8pm will be the return of Super Comedy: Melee at IMPACT Comics and Collectibles.

On June 22nd will be the 5 Minutes or Less year celebration and the release of 5 Minutes or Less The Movie (FMOLTM)!

On June 26th Brian will be part of a three hour comedy show at Comfest at 7pm.

This week’s song “Trap Queen” by Fetty Wap was recommended by today’s guest R.J. Creamer. Please tweet or comment more song suggestions for future episodes!

Also available on iTunes, YouTubeStitcher, & poddirecetory!

Thanks for Listening!